Has this ever happened to you?

Have you even been through a tough breakup (recently or in the past) where it affected you more than you thought? Have you ever been turned down for a date by someone you really liked?

Does any of this sound familiar?

• Wanting your ex-girlfriend back
• Wondering if you’ll ever get a girl again who is as good as the one who got away
• Feeling powerless and/or frustrated
• Dwelling on past relationships wishing you could change something you or she did
• Not making the most of other aspects of your life because your dating life is holding you back
• People around you who don’t understand what you’re going through
• Being surrounded by bad or impractical advice like “forget her” or “there are plenty of fish in the sea”
• Toxic on-and-off relationships that never seem to go anywhere
• Being cautious and protecting yourself so you don’t risk being hurt
• Wanting things to be different

Yeah, I know. Men don’t really talk about emotional stuff like breakups and rejection.

It’s much more fun to share success stories. It doesn’t sound very masculine or powerful to talk about how we “just can´t get over this girl“.

But guess what? Whether we like talking about it or not, and whether it´s macho or not, it happens to most of us at some point in our lives.

No one is immune. Not even for celebrities, players, or so-called pick up artists. Not even dating coaches like top Love Systems instructors. Not even men who have their shit together. It’s not weak to fall for someone; it takes courage. And if you have the courage to truly fall for someone, you run the risk of getting hurt. I should know – it’s happened to me and to every one of my friends, colleagues, and clients at some point in their life.

And it came as a huge surprise, not only to me, but to most people around me. Not just the breakup, but the heartbreak that followed.

My friends were confused. “You? YOU are heartbroken over a woman?” I knew it was affecting me in different ways – even if it is true that I could go out and meet other women easily. (The easy “Go %#(* Ten Other Women” doesn’t work, and I’ll explain why). I wasn’t depressed, but I wasn’t at 100% either. For months. Not because there was anything wrong with me but because I didn’t know what to do!

FACT: 87% of breakup and rejection resources are directed toward WOMEN

Men and women process emotions differently. Almost all of the “conventional wisdom” about dealing with rejection assumes that the listener is a woman and as as useful to average man as breast-enlargement surgery. It’s the wrong medicine and will make things worse.

Rejection doesn’t have to be recent or in a relationship to have the same negative effect

I deal with dozens of clients every week and have been a dating coach since 2004. I can tell you with absolute certainty that it doesn’t matter whether a rejection was 10 years ago or 10 days ago, and it doesn’t matter whether it’s your girlfriend leaving you or a long-term crush telling you she “doesn’t see you that way”. It affects you. It affects your body language, emotional openness, risk-taking, subcommunications, confidence, mental focus, and so many other aspects of your life. Most of these are subtle game-killers themselves, so until you address them, you can’t bounce back!

Get smarter about your life, so you can be the best version of yourself!

There ARE answers. You just have to take action. One of the things I discovered is 10 principles (called laws) that are based on male psychology and are specific and actionable, to get you achieving your full potential and shed the dead weight that is holding you back.

Educate yourself! Learn the universal breakup laws! Take back your power!

Love Systems has shown that there rules, systems, and patterns for meeting and attracting women – put to the test a thousand times on hidden camera on the Dr Phil Show, Tyra Banks, ABC Nightline, Fox News, etc. If you’d never heard of Love Systems, then the idea of a system an average guy can use to attract “out of your league” women might seem impossible. But if you’ve taken Love Systems training, you know that it’s not about “getting lucky” or a series of coincidences. It’s about cutting through the BS, getting the right information, and applying it. Learn the rules, systems and patterns and they will work FOR you instead of against you.

Introducing…The Complete Breakup Survival Guide

Once we mastered breakups and rejection, I didn’t want to just restrict it to my personal coaching clients. Not everyone can afford my rates, and some people learn better from having a system written out in front of them that they can work through privately. (Though most of clients said it works best to have the material and a personal mentor to apply it.) I called it the Breakup Survival Guide for Men. It’s over 200 pages, full of practical and step-by-step advice any man can use to take your life back.

No Man Left Behind

To keep it accessible, it’s $39.95. That’s it. No recurring payments, no delivery fees, no stings. Just a solid, proven, system, delivered as an e-book straight to your inbox today. You can start turning around your life tonight. If in 30 days you haven’t seen amazing results, email me and get a full refund. It’s that simple. 30 days is plenty of time for the Complete Breakup Survival Guide to start changing your life, and, if it hasn’t, I don’t want your money anyway.

“What do I get?”

The Breakup Survival Guide for Men is thorough — over 200 pages. I didn’t want you to have unanswered questions. But it’s set up so you can dive straight into section you want, e.g., how to:

• Turn the volume down on the drama, so you can think and function
• Recognize the “lies” that everyone tells themselves, so you can see what’s really going on
• Know when and how to contact your ex – and when NOT to
• Stop being and feeling like a victim, so you can take your power back
• Learn what really went wrong, so you can avoid those mistakes next time
• Rebuild your support network and social life, so you bounce back stronger
• Understand if the situation with your ex is fixable, or if you should want to fix it
• See yourself and past relationships in a much different and clearer light
• Deal with various specific situations, like if you lived together, work together, have kids, etc.
• Help your friends when they face breakup or rejection

 

“Does it work in MY situation?”

It doesn´t matter if you are black, white, yellow, green or purple, old, young, tall, short, living with your parents or in a retirement home. These laws are based on human psychology and evolutional biology. They apply to EVERYONE. And that also means that YOU can take advantage of the advice, tips, tricks and insights of this book.

In particular, the Complete Breakup Survival Guide is especially useful to men in these situations:

• You want the most fastest and most effective way of getting your life back on track
• You want sustainable long-term change, not a bandaid or quick-fix
• You prefer specific, practical action steps to general advice
• You are fed up with touchy-feely advice directed toward women
• You know that “just get over it” doesn’t work
• You want to know WHY things happened as well as how to fix them
• You believe in self-improvement and want to be your best self

“There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going!” But why take the scenic route?

This is true in many aspects of life, especially self-help. Quick fixes and taking the “easiest way out” is often like peeing your pants on a cold winter’s day. Sure, it warms for a short time, but that effect quickly wears off. The same goes for getting past a bad breakup. There is no spell, no secret potion or magic words that will make you TRULY get over a bad breakup in a matter of days.

Having said that, there is absolutely no reason why you should be frustrated, hurt or depressed over a relationship any more or any longer than you have to. And there is no reason why you should take a detour or go the wrong way on your road to recovery. That’s why I am so proud of this book.

Here is the great news!

If you understand the basic dynamics and rules of your breakup, you will be able to make the laws work for FOR you.

Extra Added Bonus (This Week Only)

Get a FREE copy of Nick Savoy’s private “Breakup and Rejection” webinar (1.5 hours long), covering breakups and rejection (including rejections on the approach at bars and coffee shops) with extensive Q&A.; A must-have companion with the Survival Guide